Nao (Tokyo)

Nao is in the 55 to 64 years old age group. She was born and brought up in Tokyo and has always lived in the same house. She now cares for both of her elderly parents in the family house and she works as a care giver for elderly people, and says it is a privilege to help old people.

As a child, she remembers that her mother was a kitsuke volunteer and would go and help people dress on special occasions. She also wore a kimono with a black haori to Nao’s graduation ceremonies. Those are good memories for Nao, but although she liked her mother in kimono and wanted to wear it herself, her mother was very severe with her when she tried, so she was put off it. However she has always liked Japanese cultural things such as tea, calligraphy and Japanese dance, so she thinks it is natural for her to want to wear kimono, too. About eight years ago, she began to look at kimono pages on the internet and started trying to put on kimono using You Tube. One day she posted a picture of herself in a kimono group, wearing a haori over western clothing. That picture got a lot of likes and so she was encouraged to try to wear kimono. Her mother is no longer severe with her. She is a little afraid of the “kimono police” (very strict rule-governed women), but now finally she feels brave enough to dress herself and walk out in kimono. She has kimono from her family and friends, but now she likes to choose them for herself. She buys them on the internet for up to 2,000 yen including the postage. She has 37 kimono, which are almost all casual, one third are komon, and another third are tsumugi from her mother.

奈緒さん 55~64歳の年齢のグループ、東京都で生まれました。生まれた時から現在までずっと同じ家に住んでいます。今はこの家でご両親の介護をしながら、介護の仕事をしています。お年寄りのために働けることは恵まれていると思っています。

子供の頃、奈緒さんのお母さまは着付けのボランティアとして晴れの日に着物を着る人のお手伝いをしていました。奈緒さんは、学校の卒業式にはお母さまが着物の上に黒羽織を着て出てくれたことを覚えていて、とても良い思い出になっています。お母さまの着物姿が好きで、奈緒さんも自分で着物を着たいと思いましたが、着付けに関してはお母さまが大変厳しく、その時は着るのをやめてしまいました。それでも日本の伝統的なもの、着物を含め、書道、お茶、日舞などがずっと好きだったので、自分で着物を着たいと思うことは自然なことだと思っています。今から8年前、インターネットで着物のページを見るようになり、一度、奈緒さんの写真を着物グループにアップしました。その時の写真は洋服の上に羽織を着た写真で、「いいね」がたくさんつき、そのことが自信になり、インターネットの動画を見ながら着付けの練習を家で始めました。お母さまからは、今はもう厳しくあれこれ言われなくなりましたが、着物警察は少し怖いです。それでも、ようやく自信を持って、着物を着て外出できるようになりました。

お手持ちの着物は37枚。三分の一はお母さまから譲られた紬で、その他はほとんど小紋です。ご家族や友人から譲られた着物を多くお持ちですが、最近は自分で選ぶことを楽しんでいます。インターネットで、送料を含めて2,000円以内のものを探しています。

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